What we think when you see a man with scars on the hands? Suicide? Abnormal? Most often, such scars are a sign of self-escort - habits to inflate wounds or burns. About why people at their own will torment their body read in the article.
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They will cut themselves with razors and other sharp objects. They apply burns with cigarettes and soldering iron. Such wounds are rarely exhibited for universal review. In most cases, this «secret» Carefully hiding under the clothes. If anyone still notices the fresh scar and will require explanations, then will receive in response: «I burned the iron» or «Cut the kitchen knife». Think, chance, with whom it does not happen?
In fact, household injuries here will not even smell, we are talking about membership, that is, about the conscious causing physical damage without intent to commit suicide. About every hundredth person lives with this problem. If we talk only about teenagers, especially about girls, then the numbers will be even higher.
Certificate is usually becoming an overwhelming, peculiar dependence. People understand perfectly, as such behavior should look like in the eyes of others, but they cannot do anything with themselves. After all, their wounds on the body are a direct consequence and expression of spiritual wounds, from which they cannot get rid of. That's what they tell.
«I was seventeen years old when I started to cut myself. I did not know that this is a symptom of depression - I just started doing it. … Gradually, I could no longer do without it. It was part of my life, which no one knew about. I bought an expensive dangerous razor and cut myself, locating in the bathroom. Sometimes when I draw, I used my own blood. For me it was proof of my pain. What exactly I did, I understood only years later, when I watched the TV shows about the membership».
Although «Frighties», on average, more often think about suicide and even commit such attempts, directly with suicide, their behavior is in no way connected. On the contrary, one of the explanations they give their actions: the desire to avoid suicide.
No matter how paradoxically, a member is their self-help method, if you like, self-medication, albeit dangerous to health. Most often, these people say that in this way they cope with their overwhelming emotions (anger, fear, disgusting to themselves, despair), come out of the state of extreme stress or from emotional stupor («at least to feel»).
According to statistics, 67% of those who practice memberships practically do not feel pain during their actions. They rarely can explain the cause that makes them harm them. However, they know exactly what they achieve: after «doses of suffering» Calm and relief comes.
