Causes of frigidity
Reasons can be quite a lot. This is both a conditional reflex nature of the disease, when the main reason is the inability of the partner to meet women's needs and violations that require medical intervention: hormonal failures, mental disorders. Sometimes there are causes of complete frigidity, such as violation of the activities of internal secretion, nervous diseases. Medical practice shows that complete frigidity of this character is an exceptionally rare case.
Very often the reason for the manifestation of indifference to sex is the ignorance of its body and its erogenous zones, inappropriate atmosphere and incorrectly selected poses. All this simply does not give a woman the opportunity to relax and get a complete pleasure from sex. Very often both partners forget to pay the time to pre-caress, directing all their strength on the sexual intercourse itself.
Also a considerable role is playing in childhood. Too tough or Puritan, when a woman did not receive a proper amount of attention and caress from his parents - all this entails a huge number of complexes, because of which the woman feels ugly and squeezed.
Views of frigidity
The disease is divided into several forms:
- Psychogenic frigidity is a variety when a woman has disgusted with a specific partner who has shown painful or cruel actions to her earlier.
- Symptomatic frigidity manifests itself when various diseases occur - head or spinal cord, intoxication, drug addiction or endocrine disorders. This variation of frigidity is temporary and can also manifest itself before or after delivery, with fatigue, avitaminosis, stress. The main indicator that everything is in order with the woman - the sensitivity in erogenous zones is not lost and, with the right approach from the man, it can reach orgasm.
- Retrtedation frigidity is manifested in the event of a delay in puberty in young women and, as a rule, is normalized afterwards. It can also be felt due to the painful sensations that a woman connects with a sex act, and in fact there are inflammatory processes of genital organs.
- Constitutional form of frigidity, most often congenital. With her, a woman has complete apathy to sex, eurogenic zones are insensitive, erotic dreams are not visited.
Manifestation of the disease
The manifestation of the disease can be quite diverse and change from year to year, but a woman can feel like a frigid, if there is painfulness, dislike, the achievement of orgasm is impossible for her. Often most of the guilt lay on a partner who does not want or can not properly hear or feel a partner.
Phrigidity treatment
It must be remembered that only a sexologist can be diagnosed. And in this case, it will be necessary to take the consultation of the gynecologist and the endocrinologist to identify problems - inflammatory processes or hormonal disorders. Very often, women are shy to handle such issues to the hospital, but if there is an understanding that sex coldness interferes with normal life (family scandals, divorce), then it is better to take some steps. After all, non-rare frigidity may be the cause of the concomitant disease.
It is also very recommended to take advice from a psychologist to identify hidden causes of the disease, if the woman itself does not see them.
Prevention
There are several proven ways that the doctors themselves recommend. It must be remembered that prevention is the best tool to avoid the disease or simply increase your libido.
- Relax. Choose a rest that you like - sleep, go to the salon, take a bath. Better if you feel the need to relax with your man. After all, take a look at your partner with other eyes.
- To relax. Loving people do not have secrets, especially in the sexual act. Do not be afraid to seem like a loose or depraved. Do just all you want. It will pleasantly surprise your man, and you will achieve the goal together.
- Trust the partner. Tell all you give. You want to correct the situation and you need to convey that this requires his help.
- Change of the situation, romantic evening. When all points over "I" are arranged, arrange yourself a dinner with candlelight. Buy beautiful underwear, take wines. You will be able to liberate and awaken sensuality.
- Do not hurry. Choose aphrodisiacs, massage oil, study each other, erogenous zones. You both like it.
ethnoscience
National experience is not particularly rich in tips on the treatment of female frigidity. However, there are several proven funds to enhance desire and libido.
It is very important to remember that it is necessary to resort to them only after the full examination is passing and find out that there is no root cause of the disease.
- Alcohol tincture of Ramiol. 15 drops dilute in 100 ml of water and take 15 drops three times a day for half an hour before meals. Treatment period - 12 weeks.
- 30 grams of dry flowers of the night violet should be pouring 500 ml of red wine and insist 2 weeks in a dark place. Daily bottle with tincture need to shabby. After time, resolve the contents of the bottle and take on a tablespoon 2 times a day 30 minutes before meals for 8 weeks.
- Mix hemp seeds with a small amount of sea salt and take 1 tablespoon for 8 weeks a day for 8 weeks a day.
In the treatment of frigidity, the desire of the most woman is very important to understand itself and no less important to the desire of its partner to assist her and support. The main symptom of the congenital form of the disease is that there is no discomfort to her a woman, she considers it quite normal.
Remember that freigidity in the competent approach of the specialist in no way sentence, but a sexual disorder that is amenable to treatment.