What is co-addiction? Did not touch the problem of addressing you and your family? Answers to these questions you will find in the article.
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In order to understand what a co-addiction is, answering these questions:
- Most of the funds in your family goes to the dependent
- You pay debts, loans, help not go to jail
- You are not engaged in your health, t.To. lacking time or means
- It is difficult for you to refuse to add dependent
- You blame yourself in the fact that your native has become addicted
- You are trying to hide the problem from others
- You consider yourself obliged «save» Your loved ones to take care of him
- You have a constantly bad mood, anxiety about your loved one
If you answered yes, at least one question, most likely the problem of considerably touched and you.
My child is sick / husband, not me! - You will tell you and you will be right. However, the dependent person is a member of your family, part of your life, and your interaction cannot do not affect the disease.
It is known that the dependence is the problem of the whole family. Therefore, the correction of copending relationships in the family is a primary task to establish a resistant.
Capacity is a passion for a disease of a close person suffering from addiction, living its life, substitution of interests of the dependent interests of the dependent husband, Son, daughter. This is the soil in the family, without which the addiction cannot manifest. CONFERENCY - this has reached the painful severity of love. It is based on the problem of family relations, which is formed by decades, whole generations and is destructive strategies that firmly secured in the family.
For this reason, the process of changing such relationships is long and laborious. Capped - people who do not suffer from chemical addiction, so convince them of the need to help a rather complicated task. As a rule, co-dependent actively deny any own problems, problems in the family, accusing in all dependent family member. They defend their own illusions and misconceptions, defending them. Signs of television addiction are low self-assessment, controlling behavior, fear of publicity, disbelief in a loved one, in itself, a doctor, loss of control over his behavior, its feelings, superstitiousness, fear, pseudo-alterism, and others.
The results of the intervention of the psychotherapist, a psychologist, psychiatra narco-drugs is a critical attitude towards the addiction, willingness to solve their own problems, improving the situation in the family and the formation of constructive strategies, effective ways to overcome emotional voltage. Dependent get the opportunity to solve their problems and build new constructive relations in the family, whose members, respectively, are ready to accept these changes.
