What to do and how belongs to yourself and to others after the operation on the chest? Read in this article.
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Confidence for every day
It is quite natural that after the operation on the chest, you feel helpless and do not know how to regain confidence and the joy of life. Your physical condition has changed, but for your family, friends and your partner you stay the same as before.
After the operation, thousands of women before you were able to feel good again and do not hesitate to be in society. You can also!
But you will need time to gain a mental equilibrium. Your alertness and closeness is quite understandable, as well as your doubts whether you will ever feel a woman. Nevertheless, your partner still loves you.
If you really want, your charm and attractiveness are preserved, you will have to work on yourself, gaining self-confidence. It is very important that you realize the price of yourself and your personal qualities. Attractive figure is not the main thing in life.
Your relationship with others
Your relationship with others will also change. If they were good and stable, they will strengthen and everything will be, as before. If not, you have to ask yourself a question that was not in order between you and your partner before the operation. Help the partner better adapt to the new situation. Do not surround yourself a mystery. Fantasy is terrible than reality. Show him your postoperative scars, prosthesis and do not hide that you really need and pleasant his proximity, understanding and consolation.
Men are actually more sensitive and less shocked than women imagine. They often have a desire to be a patron and defender who brings love and affection. Know that most people, unfortunately, avoids an open conversation about cancer diseases, due to the fact that they are afraid to confuse the patient or hurt him with their questions.
Only your own openness can you cause your loved ones for a frank conversation about your disease and your feelings. Children often show not only natural curiosity, but also care, they want to know what happened to you. Explain it this is as open as possible - so you will avoid the game of the secret, which will complicate your life even more.
Family and friends
Family and friends will want to help you. Give them this opportunity and ask for help. But in no case do not allow your loved ones to fulfill all the work for you and your duties, it can over time not only to tire them, but also to deprive you of any responsibilities. Here is the rule - all in moderation. You should think about what your former life has brought you. That you have not fulfilled and what would you like to achieve. Your disease should be a motivation for you to make you finally think about yourself and stopped overwork. Think about what brings you joy and consolation. Find a place and time for your hobbies and interests.
Do not forget about yourself. After all, we are talking about you, about your well-being and health!
It is important that you fully trusted the doctor, he must always stay your support all the time. For your calm, it will not hurt and consult with another specialist - it will calm you and give more confidence that it will help you better endure further treatment. Attend your doctor regularly until you feel good. If you have any questions, you have the right to!
