How to distinguish psychological trainings from sect? How not to get to the fishing fraudster? Answers to these questions you will find in the article.
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Signs of the differences of the training from the sect
Using the depressed psychological condition of many people, as well as the desire to change their life for the better, the so-called are got out of the arena «Teachers of success».
Grown mainly in Western techniques, driven by thirst for profit, they are sobed by human destinies and health. Drags all in a row in their sepitation of sectarian. But what about it, because people are only a source of profit.
But that's not all. After all, their activities they throw a shadow on those who work openly and honestly. Who is not indifferent to human destinies. On those who their own reputation is more expensive than any money.
And so I decided to give you a compressed, but working information on how to distinguish a psychocult from useful and safe for your health and training status. I managed to identify nine main signs of any destructive organization, be it sect, training, or seminar. Goal - warn you about danger.
1 Sign: The deification of the coach and feeding the training as the only right path from all possible.
Here most often the offensive is on all fronts. That is, the whole setting that surrounds you upon entering the training should look like glamorenko. The coach itself dresses in a suit or snow-white shirt, smiling widely, says a lot of pleasant, smart and often incomprehensible things.
The room looks very presentable, with good repair and expensive furniture. All this is designed to give you the first impression and to discourage. Showful greatness is designed to emphasize your inequality with him and it means to prepare good ground for manipulation.
2 Sign: Ignote money and various impact on the outgoing (intimidation, persuasion and t.D.).
It is no secret that all the pros well know human psychology and typical weaknesses. And fully use them in their dirty purposes. Ignote money hits one of the main human weaknesses - greed. And it is not surprising that it often works, let and not in 100% of cases.
There is information from the participants of the like «Trainings», What they threateled that in case of their departure, the whole group will be deducted. It works very effectively, because it beats at once several pain points. If it does not help, then it often comes to persuasion «At conscience», and to straight unaczzle threats.
3 Sign: Requirements to bring on trainings of new students.
The main weapon of all intelligence and network marketing workers. It is thanks to such a statement of the case of the system, they are built on them, possess enviable survivability.
Let someone will not stand - leaves or go crazy. Recruitment system having a self-reproducing ability from this will not suffer.
4 Sign: The focus on cutting out you from communication outside the training.
When you communicate only in a narrow circle of people, then all your living space is a soul, thoughts and feelings - will be filled with exactly what surrounds you. More deep dive plus the absence of external force capable of seeing what is happening with you is just what they need. Chance to jump ash rushing sharply to zero.
5 Sign: personality suppression.
From the very first minutes of communication you will be attempted to hit the most sick and sensitive places. You may be surprised - where they can know about my difficulties, if we have never been familiar.
But in fact, everything is easier for a steam turnip. First, if you have pronounced the name and topic of training, then you are not all right with it. And secondly, the most exciting people themes are pretty typical - money, sex, relationships with relatives, internal contradictions.
Did I be mistaken?
6 Sign: Requirement of literal performance of tasks without taking into account individual identity features.
Here, the principle of rowing everyone under one comb is elevated to Absolut. And the most special attraction gives him fat plus that it allows you to achieve several goals at once.
The main thing here is echoes with the previous paragraph. Namely: to achieve the equalization of the full suppression of any desire for freedom. Be how everything do like everything. Driving a ram aid easily.
Another goal is not so cruel, but still very useful. The coach does not need to break his head, how to approach the case creatively. Act yourself in one scheme and only. the beauty!
7 Sign: Requirements to talk about yourself, even with your reluctance (tool manipulation).
Personal intimate information actually gives a huge power and the effect of an immoral calculating manipulator. Knowing in detail all your weaknesses, fears and problems, the prepared professional acquires almost unlimited power and control over you.
8 Sign: Nothing explains and make everyone take on faith.
To hide your true intentions, coaches and presenters can use in two ways - to lie and negotiate. If they explain everything, then the lies will definitely be revealed, and you will score a big bolt on the coach and the training itself.
Therefore, they choose a second, more efficient way, and drive into your head dogma and installation necessary to achieve intended goals.
9 Sign: Prohibit talking about what is happening in the training.
For the worst reliability and stability of the created system, pseudo-student decided to progress and to avoid any unexpected interventions from the outside. Multiple slobs and continuous zombies leads to the fact that a person is no longer able to adequately evaluate what is happening and setting estimates.
Only help from the side can help him, but from the very beginning of all those who came to do not talk about what is happening in the training. Supposedly for non-disclosure of secret techniques and techniques practiced here.
And thus the impact techniques for defenseless head often turn into mental disorders and reflected health. And even the ticket there, from where no one has returned.