For some reason, most people do not speak this topic. The information you read in this section concerns mainly women suffering from an oncological disease.
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Problems of intimate life
For some reason, most people do not speak this topic. The information you read in this section concerns mainly women suffering from an oncological disease.
Know that if during and after treatment sexual feelings, thoughts and desires appear - this is a sign "presence of life". And do not be afraid if the desire of proximity for some time after treatment will decrease or completely disappear.
Severe life from the diseased different and depends on the form of the disease. Often, the pair should seek harmony with joint efforts. It often happens that relationships after treatment are improving and becoming closer than before. Good to those couples that understand each other and can overcome fear, talk about sex life, accept and love new habits.
Sometimes it happens that men do not want to understand feelings of their beloved and solve problems together. Embarrassed women are disappointed in their partner, and the couple can break. Often the problems of mutual understanding lies in the fact that the partner does not know how to behave and waits. Woman regards it as a lack of interest in himself and feels lonely. So both are removed from each other, although they want to return.
Partner's behavior
For a partner, the problem of handling a woman is of great importance. The diagnosis sounded as "a bolt from the blue". He worries and afraid for her. More often a man is not sure how to act in this situation. Where he can know that the woman now needs him if she doesn't talk about it? It often happens that with him (during and after the treatment of his beloved), the desire for intimate contacts is reduced. It's quite normal. He is experiencing too!
Currently, in the case of cancer breast cancer, either complete, or partial removal. After the operation, as a rule, to avoid relapse, the irradiation of the affected area is required.
Breast loss burden a woman strongly. In consequence, depression may arise, doubts, insecurity and sexual disorders.
All these feelings lead to the woman seems to have lost femininity. Joins the fear of the fact that the partner will not find it sexually attractive. This fear is due to the fact that the breast in our society is considered the main symbol of sexuality.
Milk iron for many women - a source of sexual pleasure, for many couples stroking the chest is an important part of a sexy game. If the milk iron is removed, often the first reaction is the desire to hide and remove. Need time.
After surgical intervention, insensitivity may occur and pain in the operation zone and adjacent tissues. In the early use of therapeutic gymnastics, it is often possible to avoid or at least soften these consequences. During exposure, hyperemia and swelling of the skin may be observed. Pigmentation may increase.
Woman need to take care of the area of the shoulder and chest, during the proximity not to rely on the hand. After the end of treatment it is necessary to avoid pregnancy. The view and method of protection should make a reservation with the doctor.
If you removed the dairy gland completely, do not despair, after a while, use all the possibilities for its restoration. Of the various options it is necessary to choose those that are more suitable for you. An experienced doctor will provide detailed information on this issue. There are silicone prostheses, to the touch and externally very similar to the real breast. Lingerie and bathing suits of imported and domestic production under artificial breasts are offered.
Also, remember that you can always resort to small tricks, for example, wearing a lace shirt, a men's shirt or erotic lingerie, screaming what is shy. Do not forget about creating a pleasant atmosphere through mild lighting.
Some fear that cancer is a contagious disease. Cancer can not be transmitted from one person to another either through a kiss, nor through sexual contact.
Some are confident that after the exhibited diagnosis, it should refuse that sex, fearing the recurrence of the disease. Such a fear is unfounded.
