Do you know why, regardless of legislation, in one European country a very high percentage of organ donors, and in the other - extremely low? How do you give yourself sentences yourself - answer in the article.
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How do you agree to donation?
Before you lies the questionnaire that you need to fill. Suppose you sign an emergency agreement or any medical procedure. There is a point in the donation of organs in the case of your death. An ordinary paragraph, which, for example, is required in the questionnaire to receive driver's licenses in half of Europe.
Imagine that items in the questionnaire twenty, and even fifty. And you are boring. And you want to quickly finish paper rolls and go to business. Will you want to strain? What simpler — put a tick or miss its production? Think for a second: if your goal — Quickly divided by bureaucracy and return health, whether you will especially think about what is written in the questionnaire? Or by default agree with most points? Of course, if they are most neutralized and do not urge you to commit crimes.
Look at the difference in the wording:
— I agree to my organs become donor in the case of my death.
— I do not agree to my organs become donor in the case of my death.
While you are not standing in the face of death, you are unlikely to seriously think about what these lines mean. Therefore, is there a big difference for you now to make a decision? We assure you — no difference. And if you need to take a weighted solution, you will prefer to be used and not put a tick. It seems like, and not refused, but agreed automatically. It seems like, and there is no particular responsibility...
Why do you accept such a decision?
Who told you that, refusing to put a tick, you make a decision? The trick is that you refuse to decide. Only a small part of people (no more than five percent) can make actions and carry responsibility for them. Only a small part of people while reading and filling out the questionnaire is able to ask himself a question: «As I treat the fact that my bodies will become donor?» — and answer him, based on their true desires.
The psychology of the overwhelming majority of you is that you trust decision making someone else. Here you are — husband and you — Government. You personally went to the presidential election? And who chose the chapter of your municipal district? Would you like — Personally, you — decide what will happen to your body after your death? Or wave off the choice and allow someone to dispose of someone that belongs to you?
Most likely, you personally will refuse to make a decision. Because you do not know how to do this, you are terribly responsible for your words and actions. You prefer to sail downstream.
If you are outraged by these words, well — I hope you can be happy for you. Perhaps you fall into those five percent of people who can solve something. But most likely you are angry that hear the truth. And who loves when he is told «you are weak and irresponsible»?
How to stop being a victim?
But I do not want to exclusively attack and blame. You are not alone, such irresponsible and unrequited as you, — ninety-five percent of the world's population.
What can you personally do to reduce this percentage?
Start make decisions!
Every time you can decide something when you need to put a tick, ask yourself a question: «Why do I need it?» Be careful: most often people in response to the question «why» Start to answer the question «why». Why do you need to marry? — Because I love her. Not «then to support each other», but «because...».
Remember the famous phrase about the fact that the most terrible people — indifferent? Think: refusing to put a tick, refusing to even think that it will mean her absence, you become indifferent. You turn into a person who, without a difference, rotate his organs in the ground or save three lifests. You become the one who decides that «All the same, the president will not be my chosen one». You speak: «My only voice does not decide», — and find yourself part of the human mass that does the fact that others solved for her. Those who have accepted their decision put their tick.
Do you really do not care what happens to your life? If yes — Welcome to the sleeping of faceless non-personalities. If not — Put your own check mark. And carry responsibility for it.
