Can I cure kleptomania? What makes people steal? Answers to these questions you will find in the article.
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Kleptomania
«In me sits a demon who makes me steal», - Recognized
Young guy, Kleptoman-thief inevitable. Indeed, with kleptomania
man manage insurmountable impulses (mania), and he steals without
Proprieties or revenge.
Immediately before making theft, it feels elevated
voltage in the body that replaces immediately after that relief or
Even pleasure. As a rule, then he has a sense of guilt and
repentance due to the deed. But the victim from theft is not easier from
that it robbed the patient. The thief must be punished for his act - who will understand what the causes of theft?
It is unlikely that there are precedents in our country when the Warmer, especially adolescents
and young people who first fell on theft make it possible
Clepping. Except if Kleptoman turns out
relative of an influential or rich face.
When I recently came home after a session with a young kleptomanka and turned on
TV, was pleasantly surprised by the coincidence: on the first channel went
Transferring about Kleptoman. Unfortunately, the transfer ended, and I could
see only the easiest. But I was struck by the fact that she did not give
No hope of kleptomans for salvation from their fate.
At the very end of the transmission showed how two unfortunate young
Students-Kleptomanov courageously fight their «criminal»
ailment, supporting himself by the fact that karalyat each other in turn,
To, God forbid, some of them did not comply with something in the store.
After such a final of the TV show, naturally, I conclude that
The transfer did not illuminate a very important thing that had to be said: in most cases, Kleptomania is treated quickly and easily!
And if someone from psychotherapists does not know how to do quickly or not
knows how to do in general, then this does not mean that he is a bad specialist. Just
He is not a specialist in the treatment of kleptomania. Then you need to look for specialists,
who have experience in the treatment of mania, including kleptomania.
And there is also a very important thing that should be said about: Kleptomania is not treated with medication - can only help psychotherapy!
Usually kleptomania develops aged 5-8 years on the background
minimal brain dysfunction, most often after psychotrame. She can
leak wavely when the symptoms are enhanced and weaken. Someone
Only certain things steal from Kleptomanov (hours, buttons,
hairpins, lipstick, bicycles and t. D.). Someone «specializing» on the
products, especially on sweets. Some attract sparkling things
or they take everything that lies badly. If Kleptomanov is not treated, then
they tend to go to prison. Many consider this disease
social, but it's not quite so. Among Kleptomans are often found
children from prosperous, secured, and then rich families.
Unfortunately, the theme of Kleptomania was not sufficiently studied. In literature
You can often find a link to the incurability of this disease that breaks
Fate people making them criminals. Police officers and those who
works with difficult children, most of them put theft only
in guilt parents, surrounding, without taking into account that it can
be a disease, which means that the trouble, and not the blame of a small child or
Teenager. Growing, such people often can't adequately evaluate their
Acts, descend, become recidivists.
However, there is some part of Kleptomanov, which can all life
Skish suggest. And if the purpose of their stealing is, for example,
buttons, books, handles or some minor trifle, small
Amount of money, they can avoid prison sentence. Some very
Intellectual young people from rich families suffering
Kleptomania, can attract dependent friends and buddies to
theft, justifying your actions to be «Cool», get
adrenaline and even brave it, which is explained by psycho-protective
Mechanisms. They often justify themselves also by the fact that
Kleptomanov have famous foreign stars pops and movies.
Eyes Kleptoman
Here are two typical example of kleptomania of adolescents who got rid of
his unusual and fortunately, quite rare ailment, about which
testify two-year observations (all sorts of coincidences with anyone
were random).
Boy 10 years old. He began to steal at 6 years, after the death of his father. Father died in
drunk fight in front of his son. Before that, the boy witnessed family
Scandals. Before the alarm, he was remembered by the scene of the killing of his father, his body
strained, filled with a feeling of resentment, «Magnetized» and
«Magnetic» Hands themselves stretched behind the chosen thing. After theft
Voltage went down, body «demagned», The feeling of resentment was changed
feeling guilt and shame, stolen thing hidden.
Girl 13 years old. He steals from 6 years after the divorce of parents. At first
stole all that will fall, but then it became «to pull» To jewels
(Golden Products). Before reaching for jewels, girl
Felt extraordinary joy, then heard his senior voice
Friends: «Take earrings (money and t.D.)», Felt strong colic in
body and her hands «Tanullo» To the selected subject. After theft she
hid the stolen thing, immediately her body calmed down, appeared
guilt.
Of course, in prosperous families, where you do not need to steal in order to
Do not be hungry and undressed, parents are shocked by theft
their children try to shame them, punish, hide from everyone
Problem behavior, while it succeeds, not knowing what to do about it.
The punishment of such children does not solve the problem of kleptomania, on the contrary,
enhances its manifestations or leads to even greater neuroticization,
Aggressiveness.
Instead of punishing, blaming and shame, you need to try
understand the motives of the actions of children and adolescents, boys and girls prone
To the fight. You can help your loved ones suffering from kleptomania,
Having found the necessary psychotherapist for them.
As experience of working with kleptomans shows, with Kleptomania's problem, you can cope with 1-5 sessions.
