Male impotence with the eyes of a woman

View of a woman on male problems

If you believe television
advertising, everything is very simple: problems with erection? Drank a tablet - and no problem!
The next frame is a happy female face on a strong male shoulder. Happy end.
The end of the film. Naturally, in real life all
not so cloudless. In advertising will never show that painful
disappointment and stress that is experiencing a woman if an erectile partner has
Dysfunction (T.E. impotence).

Women often hide their
True feelings and are hard to experience unpleasant situations, although they do not show
of this - they or blame themselves, suspecting the cause of sexual disorders in
his behavior, or believe that they lost their eyes in the eyes
Partner. «It's my fault!» - Here is the first idea that swears in the excited
the consciousness of a woman when her partner cannot reach erection. Meanwhile, it
The assumption has nothing to do with the truth!

The term erectile dysfunction in
medicine is used to designate the inability to reach erection or
Save this condition throughout sexual intercourse. Almost all men
Sooner or later, at least once in life faced with a similar problem. Erectile
Dysfunction may be a consequence of stress, depression, and sometimes it can be
at all wildlife. Some men have problems with erection become
permanent. In this case, the impotence is diagnosed.

Although many women - like
Men - still consider impotence exclusively a sexual problem, in
reality the most common causes of this phenomenon -
undetected physical diseases, in particular, diabetes, elevated level
cholesterol or even early stage of heart disease. Often impotence
is a consequence or by the side effect of the reception of certain medicinal
preparations that are used in the treatment of listed diseases in
particular, some drugs from hypertension.

Unfortunately, the ignorance of
real causes of male impotence often makes women feel
blameed, and also causes confusion, panic, and sometimes even irritation and anger.

As a rule, faced with
Male impotence, women feel humiliated and offended and asked
Partner Many questions. So, a woman can suspect that
the lover appeared a mistress, or that he lost her sexy
interest, and only worsens the already unenviable position of a man
offensive hints. In this situation, a man often interprets her
Questions - and an offensive tone that they are asked - as an attack and
involuntarily removes.

Ultimately it
The misunderstanding can grow into a real conflict, and the couple will stop
Full Communication - and not only in bed. Naturally, it is unlikely to help
Solve the problem of impotence and can lead to a crisis of relations.

The only thing that never
Must make a woman in such delicate circumstances, - get together and do
The view seems to have nothing. Making problems - the right way to destroy
relationship. The removal of one partner invokes the alienation of another, which may
lead to disastrous consequences - first the pair stops talking about
sex, then stops talking at all and imperceptibly it turns out in
trap your own caution or delicacy.

If the removal and silence -
Tactics Nikudushna, then excessive perseverance is unlikely to give the desired
result. No need to fall in extremes. While many women run with
sinking ship, others take the opposite tactics and try to take
storm in his hands. They are confident that everything can be fixed, you should attach them
a little more effort to excite partner. This tactic is not only
ineffective, but also harmful because it may worsen.

Woman help to help a man

So what to do a woman if a man
can not meet its expectations? According to experts, the most important -
remember that men's impotence is in no way connected with a woman. And in no case
should not be taken male «puncture» To your account!

Do not feel rejected and devoted.
The point here is absolutely not in you. Overcoming this psychological barrier, admit
the existence of the problem and openly discuss it with a partner.

«Best discuss
Sexual problems outside the bedroom - not immediately after an unsuccessful attempt
rapprochement, and a few days or even weeks later», - Advises doctor medicine
Jennifer Downey,
Psychiatrist of the New York State Institute of Psychiatry (New York State Psychiatric Institute) and teacher
Columbia University (Columbia University).
Downey also
recommends women to talk with a partner about possible diseases that
can cause impotence, and unobtrusively suggest to contact him
doctor.

According to Downey, the more serious the woman will fit
this conversation, the more chance of having to influence the man and get it
the trust.

«The problem of impotence should
worn as any other problem in relationships.E. calm and frankly
Discuss it», - considers downey.

Depending on the cause of the male
impotence, treatment can be fast (for example, taking Viagra) or long
(for example, the treatment of hypertension). It is possible that a lot of time will have to
spend only to convince a man to consult a doctor.

The main thing is in no case
say a man that his impotence for you does not matter and you «his
Love and that».

Instead, experts recommend
used the opportunity to be used for sexual experiments and
searching for proceedings, even if the erection is not possible.

Many women are accustomed to,
that the initiator of sexual proximity is a man. Perhaps it is time
Change roles?

So, in no case
Stop emotional communication with a partner, even if you have to
Stop sexual relations. And most importantly - listen to your voice
hearts.