Recently, natural childbirth conquer more and more female hearts. Stories of experienced mothers who passed through household births are fascinating with their beauty, and I want to experience this miracle for yourself. And people in Russia in recent years have become more and more in Russia, while doctors speak out with a sharp criticism of such a way of birth, considering home childbirth unjustified risk and even nonsense.
In some countries, homework has become not just legal, but more preferable. And there are all the conditions for the woman give birth to how she wants. We are in Russia before that far.
Our site offers you to look at the problem of homework from different sides and understand whether everything is really like in a fairy tale or here there are our pitfalls here? And also we will try to find out what makes women go for such a risk.
Positive side of domestic birth
It is believed that God is not on the power of testing does not give. Therefore, the woman from nature laid everything so that she could take and give birth to a child without any help. In natural or home childbirth, the woman itself chooses the place of childbirth, with whom and in which pose pose. Future mom can give birth sitting squatting, standing on all fours or hanging on her husband, lying on her side and almost never lying on his back. Oddly enough, but the posture, when a woman lies on his back, is very uncomfortable, especially for the first birth. Also, some choose to give birth to water. It is believed that the baby in the womb is in the aquatic environment, so when he falls into his native environment for him, he relaxes, and it has a beneficial effect on the future mental and physical health of the kid.
And, even if the childbirth is not in the water, still a child born in natural conditions, since it is prepared by the nature of nature, is experiencing much less stress than if childbirth stimulates, anesthesia or make a cesarean section.
As soon as the baby was born, he was put on his mother on his belly, applied to the chest, and he calms down. The baby is applied to the chest, in order for a few drops of the most valuable colostrum, which is the first resident or the first microflora, settled in the baby in his gastrointestinal tract, which is pretty much meaningful for his future health. In his house, mom breathes with certain air with which «Friendy». And, accordingly, for a child, this air does not represent dangers, of course, provided that in the house purely.
Most often, the father of the kid is present in childbirth and cuts the umbilical. The likelihood that such a man will last will throw his child, very small, because a very strong relationship is established between dad and kid. And, whatever the birth, the woman does not get tired so to send the child in someone's unknown hands and sleep. Never! Even knowing that you need to sleep, a woman can not tear the in love with the baby or move away from him at least a minute. In childbirth, the woman is surrounded by only relatives and beloved people who and massage will help to make an anesthetic and morally hold and help to care for the kid.
Also, a woman can choose an obstetress doctor, to meet him in advance, learn closer, ask other women who have taken childbirth, about his professionalism, so that in childbirth to fully relax and trust 100%.
Recently in a number of countries has become very popular cesarean section. Proponents of natural childbirth, despite the testimony, precisely to Cesarean, strive to still give birth on their own and many it turns out. But the child, born in a natural way, and passing through the birthday paths, learns to overcome their first obstacles, fights for life, and in subsequent it is very helpful to survive in extreme conditions. When the child appears on the light with the help of Cesarean, he is deprived of this experience, and such children are usually getting used to the fact that in a difficult situation will be done for them, they will help them and sometimes do not know how to behave correctly in difficult For them, situations.
And, of course, at home, most often, women give birth, who are all right over the course of pregnancy. And the chances of healthy childbirth are very great. Besides near a professional obstetrician, which will help or in the case of which will send in the hospital.
Other side of the medal
Really and, though, everything is so beautiful? Of course not. As in every case, there are our underwater stones, about which MirSoloTee would like to tell you.
All women are different, and sometimes, there is no obstetrician in the midwife. Some women are anchored opponents of medicine in any form, which means that there is no female consultation, no drugs and ultrasound. That is why our doctors beat the alarm. It seems to them that if this tendency of removal from medical care enters the fashion, then after the responsible women at home will begin to give birth to all the polls and then the problems cannot be avoided.
so. Let's look at the negative consequences that may arise during domestic birth.
- As a rule, homework chooses a woman who feels good and knows from the results of the ultrasound or feels (I did not do an ultrasound at all) that her pregnancy is working normally and without complications. But even if a woman does all the ultrasound, she can still expect a surprise. And okay, if the surprise concerns the gender of the baby, but it happens that the woman has twins or triple, and they didn't see one kid on the ultrasound, well, he just hid and all.
- Very often, childbirth takes the so-called «spiritual» obsuchors who, by the way, often do not have any medical education at all. Better to protect themselves, invite an additional obstetress, such an education that has to intervene at the right moment.
- The woman's breaking of vessels can happen at home. As a result, a large blood loss is a deadly outcome.
- The kid can begin hypoxia (oxygen fasting), and, as a result, the baby may need the help of an experienced physician immediately after delivery.
- The likelihood of the crotch break, after which it is impossible to sit 2 weeks and wearing gravity more than 3 kg. And if you are alone and you help you, and the baby was born a big? Moreover - breaks are different. Just as there are cases when it is necessary to carry out the right cut of the crotch, in order not for the fistula.
- It often happens that after the third ultrasound, the kid unexpectedly for doctors is very much gaining in weight, and it turns out this only during childbirth. And if the mother also has a narrow pelvis, then it may be necessary for qualified medical intervention (for example, Cesarean), otherwise or mother or kid can get serious injuries.
- If the situation occurs when it is necessary to urgently go to the hospital, you can not have time to do there because of traffic jams. And if you call an ambulance, then it may not have time to get to you. It is typical for densely populated cities.
Now consider the most common contraindications for homework.
- Narrow pelvis or very large fruit.
- All testimony for cesarean (uterine mioma, ovarian tumors, serious problems with the cardiovascular system, the prelation of the placenta and others.)
- Psychological unwillingness of a woman (misunderstanding of his role and responsibility)
- Complicated pregnancy (incorrect kid, prestress and other problems) as well as serious health problems at mom.
More accurate list of contraindications Specify from the selected obstetrician, since each of each different experience.
Why are women choose homework?
One of the reasons is the fear of the hospital. Many people are afraid to go to the hospital. Where did he come from?
«I remember I was about 8 years old. My brother was born, and, of course, a friend came to the mother often, and they all discussed together, as gave birth and recalled different nightmare stories. For life I remembered the case when one woman allegedly crawled on his knees in front of the doctors and begged to take the birth. I do not remember much of what was with me at this age, but this story carried through all my life. Then I decided that I would not give birth at all. And only by 30 years, I decided. But it was so scary that it was definitely chosen her homework. This is what impact seemingly innocuous stories, they had on my children's psyche».
«I dreamed about kid so long ago. My mother gave birth to me easily, as she says, with a smile on his lips, and I dreamed all my life that my childbirth will be the same. And here I got pregnant. My happiness was not limit. But it lasted not long. At work, when they found out about my pregnancy, everyone considered her duty to warn me about the danger, which lies in the hospital, and that childbirth is a hell of a nightmare. All that and it was also told about how terribly gave birth, their friends and friends, familiar acquaintances. I come home - my girlfriends sing the same song, the relatives will come to visit and there. And it seems you try not to listen and not pay attention, but I couldn't do anything with you. All this infection is firmly settled in my head, and in the hospital I went with horror. So scary, even a wolf howl. And not for myself, and for the baby, what they will do there, I didn't even want to think, but I didn't know about the possibility of domestic birth».
How so it turns out? After all, everything that is created by a person must serve for him, but not against. It seems that the hospital is a torture camera, and doctors are monsters, killers and maniacs, who are just waiting to be divided with you.
So man is programmed by nature. He has an excellent self-preservation instinct and fear that helps this instinct to realize himself. So the human brain may not hear about how everything is fine, but will definitely hear how everything is bad.
It is with the desire to protect a person from something bad and connected all sorts of advice on also childbirth. If you remember, among all those who told you nightmares about childbirth, there were those who said that they gave birth well, but you are now about it if we remember, then with difficulty, because all your attention was aimed at negative consequences.
«But is it really so bad?», - you ask. Not so much scary.
Medicine is designed to help a person to avoid death, save life where there are more people gibbles. After all, it is no secret that when our grandmothers gave birth, very often they lost children or died themselves during childbirth. For some reason forgotten this. In fact, people who can appreciate all the advantages of medical intervention, when they or their children remained alive thanks to our doctors, a lot. Grateful mothers and their husbands discharge from hospitals at the same time together with those who remained childbirth and tells a terrible story from which you want to climb.
How it turns out that in the same hospital and treat, and cripples? Everything is very simple. Here, like everywhere, it's sometimes, in a simple human factor.
In our opinion, one of the determining factors of various behavior of women is pain. Women in nature are very sensitive to pain, and, perhaps, there is nothing terrible for a woman and painful than childbirth, when only the fights lasting. Remember how the person usually behaves when he has pain? Everything is true, it breaks off at the object, this very pain caused. If this is a doctor who makes the injection, so I want to talk to him a lot of nasty, that, they say, hands grow not from there, but the blame is only a second or a minute of tested pain. And now imagine a woman who gives birth. Especially the first child. The fights are painful, I want to climb on the wall, and the period comes when these fights merge into one big painful fight. The passage is so small that practically imperceptible. This is where female weakness and intolerance to pain appear. Not only fatigue accumulates, but also anger, and all this needs to splash somewhere. And where to? Well, of course, at the doctor, and who else? It will seem for you that the doctor does everything specifically, if only you still have a bigger. And so like the baby was born, all of you are healthy, but there is not that feelings of gratitude, but rather, on the contrary, there is a very strong connection «Birth-pain»! And man thinks: «No, more in the maternity hospital». But then everything is forgotten, and again go to give birth in there, and so it was until domestic birth. How often can you hear that natural labor is Births without pain, Favorite people, everything is so good and beautiful. But! Where do the pain?
Yes nowhere she is not going as it was and remained. If a woman gives birth at home, it does not mean that she does not feel pain and everything goes smoothly and with a smile on his face, of course, no. Just a woman accepted for itself the fact that everything that will happen, she needs to be remembered, to withstand that pain does not exist, it is only an unpleasant feeling. Therefore, she does not need someone to blame or be angry with people and obstetricians, and even more so at a child who, as many believe, the culprit of all these suffering.
But believe us, even despite the good physical and psychological training, the pain threshold for all women is different. And for many, childbirth in the home environment turn into the same nightmare as for those who give birth to the hospital.
«Even at the beginning of pregnancy, I decided how I want to give birth, and when I realized that in our maternity hospital so «cosy» Do not give birth, I decided to give birth at home. On the courses we all told that pain does not exist. When you speak «Pain», In the subconscious, it rises to the surface all those feelings, emotions and reactions of the body that accompany the feeling of pain, and you really start to feel. Gave different massage techniques that, as they said, are able to ease pain. I calmed down, I decided that really, and what to be afraid? There is no pain, yet somehow they gave birth, but a package for the maternity hospital was cooking, you never know what. First child after all. Yes, and never know how you behave in an unfamiliar situation for you.
So, the contractions began together with the disheve of water in 12 nights. Called his midwife. She told me to follow the fights and when they will call regularly, and she will sleep while sleeping. I was covered by horror. How so?! And what if? But I calmed down, caused Mom, she came by taxi. And the mother and her husband sleep, and I sat down on the high chair and watch, it means that fights. And so on the chair is convenient, so good, the fights appear - I am massageing my back, breathing, how we were taught, and I sit on myself further. When we got up and started walking - the contractions became more and more painful, and I decided that there was no, there is much more convenient on the stool, it does not hurt. And in general, everything is not so scary, as I imagined. And the fights are not regular, the interval is 2 minutes, then 10. And so I promised 12 hours! My midwife has already managed to go to take another childbirth and was going to go somewhere else, as I still don't give birth, but I almost tearfully begged her to come, because I am very scared and with her will be calmer. When she arrived and asked what I did why the fights are not normal, I replied that I am sitting on my chairs. She scored me, said that I urgently need to look for a pose, in which the fights will be as painful as possible. As a result, the posture was found - squatting. And about horror! Here it is, the very pain that does not exist! Still as exist! The midwife offered to lie down in a warm bath, relax. But the bath was even worse. While there is no fights, it seems to be relaxing, but when they start, you can't massage normally, from what is more painful. It seemed to me that I was cut at several knives at once. I look at my husband and cry, saying that I can no longer be ready to get anything, if only it would not feel this pain. The husband was frightened, began to ask me to go to the hospital, for which I answered that I just can't go to the hospital in such a state. Now nothing can be done, you have to give birth. And giving birth. Oral (or, as it is customary called - «Sound») So that the husband was all afraid, no matter how neighbors caused the police. And cried and said that I would never give birth again. Three people did me a massage, but it seemed to me that not only there was no sense from him, but rather, on the contrary, only worse. No posture learned on courses, I did not save me, in any pose it was hurt. So I gave birth. Thank God, gave birth faster for three hours than the obstetric assumed. When the baby was born, I was happy, more than ever. Not in vain say: «In order to understand happiness, you need to feel his opposite direction».
It's time to give birth to a placenta. I'm starting to sleep and understand that a little more, and I lose consciousness, because in my eyes the head is dizzy. As a result, I rode her normally, but weakness remained. As the midwife told, the bloodstures were too big for me. By the way, I broke. I was sewn, and two days I could not get up. Yes, I could not, because from a strong weakness immediately started a head. Accordingly, thanks to my mother and her husband, because there was care of the baby on their shoulders and about me. Well, two weeks could not sit.
Despite the fact that everything happened, now I am no longer sure that I will risk again, knowing that I can lose consciousness. I am sure that you can go to the maternity hospital. Now there is an experience and I'm not so afraid of doctors and childbirth. Us then on courses decided to give birth at home five people. Surprise learned that I was alone broke, although few people were preparing with some exercises. But about the fact that I will never give birth to more, I was not alone. Of course, everything over time is forgotten. Now my baby is already 6 months old and it is so happiness. And now I am thinking about such happiness in my family there was a lot».
Very often, women complain that in the hospital with them all sorts of medical manipulations (stimulation of childbirth, anesthesia, an incision of crotch, Cesarean and others.) who are not needed at all. And it's very difficult to persuade a doctor all this not to do. Let's try to figure out why our doctors do that.
In the maternity hospital, all responsibility for the outcome of birth, the state laid on doctors. Many women do not even realize that coming to the hospital they, as they say, «Sit the doctor on the neck and cut the legs», as if saying «I arrived, give birth to me, I myself can not». But after all, the doctor is the same person as we all. He also has his own experience and his fears. No doctor wants to be behind bars, and therefore acts by rule «Better to rearrange how to defect». In addition, if from the very beginning the doctor has studied to take birth not naturally, but with the help of medicines and medical equipment, then what do you want from it. So it is quite natural that he applies the whole arsenal in the struggle for your life and the life of your child, and of course, in order to secure your life. But doctors have different. There are those that are generally against any naturalness, considering childbirth disease, and there are those that intervene only as a last resort.
Unfortunately, recently women are increasingly complaining about the abuse of their powers of doctors and obstetricians. It's and extorting money, and an injection for slowing the generic activity so that the doctor can sleep if the woman arrived at night. This is a cesarean cross section where it would be possible to give birth to. And what to say about indifferent or general Hamsk relationship to a woman. Therefore, our mothers can be understood. After all, the birth of a kid for many is the most important event of the whole life and when such attitude and such conditions, I want to run. Therefore, homework and steel for many, thereby hearing, whom they have deprived of medicine, at the same time, women forget that the risks of the child's death always exists.
And in the hospital can be abandoned by stimulation and painkillers, as well as a number of procedures made with mom and child. Just just write a failure. Of course, the doctors will discourage, but you have the right and you should know about it.
Mirstes want to remind all women that naturalness is great, but in our time nature because of consumer relations and a number of other factors began to malfunctions. It also could not not affect the number of complicated pregnancies and childbirth and the health of the born children. So it is very important in our time not to give up medical care. After all, it has now become possible to recognize the problem at an early stage of pregnancy, which means that the chances of dealing with it will be easy to cope, very great. Is it worth risking your health and toddler health?
No one argues that we are still far away before the birth in the maternity hospital looks like a fairy tale - and the room is their own bed, and the souls are yours, and at least bring the whole family, the main thing is that it was good. But not all at once. The emerging trend towards domestic childbirth says that sooner or later the number is simply obliged to switch to quality. So, the reform of the objects is not far off.
Birth at home, recommendations
Well, finally, several recommendations from the peacecover who still decided to give birth at home:
- Make the keys to the door of the native or girlfriend, and, starting with 38 weeks of pregnancy, if you are at home, try to close on the castle, which can be opened from the street. Often cases when a woman for various reasons becomes bad and she can't even open the ambulance.
- Come responsible for the choice of obstetric. He must have medical education and experience in conducting medical manipulations necessary to save your lives. Ask the phones of women who have taken childbirth. Job with them. And, if you trusted him, and he says you need to go to the hospital - you need to go.
- Keep in mind that the obster is the same person, like everything, and at the moment when you begin to give birth, may be present in other birth or stuck in traffic. If you are afraid, it is better to progress and negotiate with two obstetres just in case.
- Prepare everything you need for homework (will give an obstetrician). Let in 38 weeks everything will be ready. Show my husband that where it lies and what you may need in childbirth, so as not to be nervous and not to look for everything at the last moment.
- Also advise, regardless of whether you are going to drive in case of anything in the hospital or not, make a bag in maternity hospital. With all documents. Believe me, you will be calmer. Anyone can happen, but the husband will not need to look for anything.
- Learn in advance where the closest hospital and achieve permission to accept you in case of something with your husband. A woman has the right to choose a hospital not at the place of residence, and what will he want.
- Pass courses where you will be told about all kinds of birth and teach how to behave in any of them.
- If you decide to give birth into the water, prepare the place in the room, because the fights are painful and in the bathroom you can be very uncomfortable.
- Specify the gynecologist in the women's consultation your testimony for childbirth. Though rarely, but it happens that the woman comes to the hospital and finds out that she has some problems that she did not know, but who are a strict testimony for Cesarean.
- It would be nice that the husband is physically prepared, since a woman will rely on him, somewhere can sit down.
- I would like to say a few more words that not every man can attend childbirth or is experiencing a great desire to observe the whole process. Mircelves recommend to discuss all the subtleties with her husband in advance, and if he refuses, no need to insist. Men love their eyes, so the view of the wife and everything that is happening can continue to be very negatively affecting your intimate life.
- The ideal conditions for domestic birth are: no speech and everything that includes «Brain activity». Woman should relax as much as possible. Music is also desirable without words. Light - muffled, pets nearby should not be. If the husband is very afraid in childbirth - it's better to wait in the next room.
- At some point you may seem that you can no longer tolerate, start crying. It is important to believe in your strength, to be able to relax and abstract from everything, including from the negative.
- Be sure to find a neonatologist in advance, which on the same day or the next will arrive and will hold a complete examination of the child.
- After childbirth, the kid can dad with two of your passports and a witness (anyone can act as a witness). Best specify in advance how this procedure is carried out in your city.
That's it seems to. Good luck. And remember: how do you give birth important! Despite the many techniques that allow you to adjust the development of a child so that it will accumulate all the skills, which due to «wrong» G births he missed. It is important that mom and kid can be alive and healthy, what MyMedinform.COM you and wishes!