Children growing surrounded by domestic animals, kinder, careful and even smarter. Adult people pets make sure. And the elderly animals are lengthened life. All of the above seems an axiom. But whether from four-legged, tailed, patlat and slippery friends of man - one benefit? It turns out - not.
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Medicine against complexes
«Of course, the child is typically desire to have a dog. Often that
is due to the desire to imitate, be like that. Like a neighbor
Vaska and classmate Lotska dog is there, and I worse? — Explains
Zoopsychologist Arina Pavlova. — But sometimes the desire to make a dog
indicates that the child has serious enough
psychological problems. What can be called the kid effect».
Remember, the hero of the fairy tale Astrid Lindgren about Carlson was so
alone that begged parents to buy a puppy, but while I came up with a friend with
propeller? So, according to experts, the desire to start home
pet (and not only in childhood, but often in adult
age) is often a consequence of one of the three main
reasons. First, the animal is designed to fill out an existing vacuum
Communication.
In the absence of soul intimacy, a friend of a friend or spouse for forced. Secondly, desire without any effort to earn as much social dividends as possible.
On the one hand, the beast will love you any: neglected, drunk,
Non-aparted.
With another: «Let I be a little, ugly and hate all
world, but I have a big, beautiful and kind dog». Well, the third reason
— Pet is intended to curb an existing complex of inferiority. «Ah, no one respects me and no one considers my opinion? But the dog will be forced to obey!»
Do not terminate!
Correction of psychological problems involving an animal — may be,
It is quite good. No wonder there is such a section of psychology as
Animature when kids with adaptation problems, Down syndrome or
other deviations to return to normal life helps communication with
Animals — Dolphins, horses, the same dogs. The main thing — understand:
The beast is not to solve all the problems of a person. It should be only auxiliary agent.
Another problem of coexistence «Human — animal» is an…
Excessive owner love to his pet. Few of us are capable
Proper to raise a puppy. Well, of course: «He is still small» or
«Physical punishment is unacceptable». As a result, we get the beast,
able to bite not only a person as such (which creates
Danger in society), but even the owner.
Cutting a dog, you need clearly
Understand: Dog — not a man, she is not able to love, forgive, tolerate
In our understanding of this word. Our family is for it — pack. If you
You can build the right hierarchy, the animal will perceive
All family members as senior members of the group and leaders. Otherwise
will be forced to take the function of leader on yourself, which means security
You and your children are not guaranteed.
Therefore, going about the child and going on the bird market for
puppy, think if you are ready to become such a leader. If «Yes» —
Milicia asking in the community of dog holders!
