How many children were born on the perverted whims of sexual criminals - it is not known to anyone. Nobody counts violent babies, because they are simply impossible to count ..
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It's time to change the gait
In such cases, statistics are powerless by hand. Women hide their trouble from her. The fate of children of rapists, most likely, you need to look for among children - «refusal». For what incredible courage needs to have a woman to love the burden of a flawed Men's libido.
However, it is possible to look for such children, but here to find them - hardly. Women do not always tell, for what reason leave born babies in the hospital. Pregnancy from the rapist gives a woman no less suffering than the fact of dishonor, so many victims prefer to hide their misfortune even from close people. And with horror, waiting for the beginning of the nearest menstrual cycle.
Therefore, after children's homes, the fate of children of rapists silently dissolve in Russian expanses. And this is good. So be it. It will be better this way. And about their mothers something you can tell…
Once I was referring to the editor, a girl from a small near Moscow town. For two years, it raped seven times. In desperate, she decided to consult that she was doing now - «from the city, what, leaving?». But I so wanted to say that she, first of all, you need to change the gait. But did not say. Will not understand. If he heard the truth - offended and waves. For in most cases, they rape those women who are ready to rape them.
Already alone and the gait, turns of the head, seeking a look you can define a woman, not confident in yourself, not a taxable man, not burdened by morality. And the rapist, he, though the bastard, but sensations and some life experience has. And will always calculate a woman, ready for a minute, curiosity for the sake of collapse with him to the naval.
This multiplely raped destiny only seems wild, because we do not know about others. And they are. And their many. For example, this case telling me one of the participants of the story is primitive to disgrace. Two girlfriends went to relax south. Got acquainted with cute funny guys. First having fun on the beach. Then we went to the mountains «Sunset see». And there already tents are broken. Kids rest arrived savage. Weekly seen girls tied to the Negalous trees, always ready for the services of six vacationers… I found one compass - bruises raised them.
To eat-drink brought when the worms of the little workers forgot from vodka forgotten. At first, very girls were hoping on the compassional, whispering with a handful lips to his ear, so that he was unleashed and let go. Not unleashed and did not let go. But honestly explained that it was his friends and against the rules he will not go. And added sympathy so that they suffered a little, soon everything will end - because their vacation ends… after five days. Then really untied and let go. For sale, as it should be, threatened - if that, they say, then yeah… And left. Girls, too, immediately on the train - and home. In general, rested…
How many such fools, making a tear, remembering the experienced, bored alone under the blanket - who knows? I think such a lot. I guess the true scope of sexual violence is much wider than we can imagine. How and what to help here? To be honest - I do not know…
Destroy in the embryo
It is very difficult - forget bad, but you need. And in principle it is possible with time. So mercifully works our memory - it is more often reminded of joyful events. And the grief memory gradually destroys: first the paints of events are pale, then discolored, there are failures in which some fragments of events disappear, and, in the end, pain leaves, only less destructive sadness remains. So it would be with victims of violence, if not two circumstances - possible pregnancy and venereal diseases. They leave additional scars in the soul. But here at least medicine is able to help get rid of problems.
Unwanted pregnancy can be tried to prevent an emergency contraception using the method. In principle, this is already quite widely known. Specialists offer two methods. First, it is hormonal contraception. Contraceptive preparations with a high hormone content do not give a fertilized egg to attach to the mucous membrane of the uterus. They need to be taken immediately after unprotected sex - during the first 48 hours. First 2 tablets, and after 12 o'clock 2 more. There are preparations that «Work» In another interval, which helps for 72 hours.
In principle, annotations to oral contraceptives are written how they can be used as emergency and in which dose. Nevertheless, it is better to consult with a doctor. Let a specialist choose the optimal drug. For this time is. And it is absolutely optional to talk about rape, if it painfully hurts. Can be elementary to lie, for example, that the condom broke during sexual intercourse.
Be sure to keep in mind that this method is because it is so called that it can be used only in emergency cases. And it is absolutely impossible to use them for constant protection against unwanted pregnancy.
Second way - intrauterine spiral. If you immediately enter it, the pregnancy can also not come. The spiral causes constant irritation in the mucous membrane, and this, as in the case of pills, interferes with a fertilized egg to attach to the uterus. However, the intrauterine helix as an emergency prevention method is non-impulse. Only a doctor can put a spiral. And he will first decide to take a stroke for analysis, yes, other studies do, but try. And time goes… Oral contraception, of course, more convenient.
Venereal diseases
The second problem is venereal diseases that the rapist can infect. Here you need to keep in mind a few moments. Famous venereal diseases are now numbered several dozen. Even cystitis to the list of genital infections attached, because during a nonhygienic intercourse, a man can drive a causative agent inside a woman. And not all sex infections are treated equally. And completely incomprehensible in connection with this than for the purpose of security to disinfect if you do not know what particular infection has gotten. Wait for the disease to know what to treat, is also stupid.
Therefore, it is wiser to go as follows. In preventive purposes, it is necessary to disinfection from the main diseases. To do this, it is better to use drugs chlorhexidine or Miramistin. They are elementary sold in pharmacies. How to use - written in the instructions. And after 2 weeks, you must pass the tests. And if no sex infection is found - only then calm down.
And if there is something indecent, then do not panic, because in the initial stage, venereal diseases can be accelerated without much difficulty.
In general, you can cope with these problems. Another thing - if you blown pregnancy. And you have to give birth. How then to do with the child: to bring up or refuse the maternity hospital? This is the most difficult question.
