What is the elderly man in society? Is it possible, not attracting the state, improve the quality of life of the elderly?
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Elderly man in modern society
When we hear phrases «old man», We are unlikely to represent the prosperous member of society. Most often in front of the eyes, the image of a grandpa or grandparents, crossed the penny at the box office. Unfortunately, the welfare of older people in our country is difficult to call true. If the older person does not help his children or grandchildren, it is usually on the verge of survival. And we are not only about the material side of life. Expression «Elderly man in society» — almost oxymoron, because the elderly people are often alone. Blasting is not only a thought about the intimate life of the elderly, but also the ordinary psychological comfort of an aging person. An elderly person sees us a closed gloomy type, able to speak only about his diseases and to move the bones to the neighbors and native, condemning everyone and all and incessantly complaining. Why compared to Europe and North America, the state of an elderly person in Russia is such a sad? Is it possible and what methods to ensure at least a small improvement in the quality of life of the elderly in our vast country?
What does the quality of the life of the elderly in Russia depends on
First of all, there is a detrimental effect on the elderly, his social isolation. The rhythm of the life of modern young people is such that they quickly speak, quickly do, all the time in a hurry and do not find time and desire to communicate with their elderly parents and grandparents. As a result, an elderly person is alone. Lonely life does not add optimism. Man — the creature is public and dependent on the heat, which he receives from himself like.
The second important factor is, of course, poverty bordering a poverty. An elderly person, if he is not a blocker, barely can afford a full nutrition for the money that remains after the payment of utility payments. What to say about the ability to travel even to the neighboring city? She is zero.
Third factor — Health of an elderly man. In society, where the pensioner does not have the opportunity to contact the services of paid medicine, and the free is a weak diagnosis, human well-being has a tendency to deteriorate. Of course, the exacerbation of diseases should be a deterioration in the mood, loss of interest in everything except its health.
The last extremely important factor — poor social work with elderly. In developed countries, an elderly person is involved in the life of the city, the area, the yard, he actively communicates with the neighbors and has a number of hobbies. The state officially takes care of those who have no relatives. The quality of the life of the elderly in Europe and America is paid to increased attention.
Is there an intimate life in the elderly
Another factor that is not taken to talk about, — Sex life of the elderly. In progressive society has long been the fact that sex — Pledge of physical and psychological health. However, it is believed that with a retirement, a person is ashamed to think about «Joy young». Even despite the existing needs, an elderly person will be all their forces to hide its desire for intimate proximity. But the high quality of the life of the elderly Europeans is also in the fact that they can not discuss their sexual problems with a specialist sexologist. Can you imagine that the Russian pensioner goes to a sexopathologist with a complaint that he has no sex?.. Improving the quality of life directly depends on how much person is free to satisfy their desires.
Ways to improve the quality of life of the elderly
We see several ways to help the elderly.
- First you need to involve them in modern life with its realities. Many pensioners have already learned how to use mobile phones. It remains to introduce them to the Internet. Can you imagine yourself without the usual information you get using the Internet? Give your parents and grandmothers the opportunity to keep up with the times. Let them expand the circle of communication, find new hobbies using the Internet.
- Intimate life of the elderly — Question is delicate. It seems to us that overcome the complexes of the Russian pensioner related to sex, you can only in one way: offering them information about which sex forms exist to obtain positive emotions. In order not to embarrass the elderly with excessive revelations, you can call for the help of the same Internet.
- The elderly man needs to feel necessary. Provide him with me, with your children and grandchildren. Come up with what your grandmother can be useful to you. Turn on the creative approach: Let it write a culinary diary with the best recipes for his long life, the woolen socks knit for you, stinks children's tights, writes memoirs and shares valuable experience. The main thing — understand that improving the quality of life of the elderly will happen by itself. Elderly man needs help young.
