At first glance, all the pregnancy of the samewomen should be similar. But I speak for myself - after giving birth to two children with a difference of 14 years, fully felt a huge difference. In the first pregnancy came almost a teenager. And although at the time I was 19 (not such a child), even in the shower sported butterfly, and the first 2 months have passed unnoticed. On a small nausea completely oblivious, he led former way of life, realizing its unusual position only when a small tummy. And only visiting the consultation and put on record, I started a new life with an eye on the growing baby - diligently fulfilling doctor's recommendations, adjusting your diet as much as possible, a lot of walking and think positively. Fortunately for me (and the youth took her?), All of 9 months, in spite of the hot summer, I ran very briskly. quickly also came a day X - woke up at 12 at night in a puddle of amniotic fluid, at 7 am already held their Manyunya.
Features of the second pregnancy
The second pregnancy, according to the doctors,should be easier (in my case, where much easier). But whether the case in the age (34 years), or in a large time interval after the first birth, but despite good health and a lack of serious problems, to make the son was much more difficult. Early toxicosis accompanied by constant nausea and unobtrusiveinsanely irritated tummy appeared almost immediately, in the first weeks, and work all at once guessed, though I'm naive, intended to keep silent until the last.
It turns out that the whole thing in the uterus elasticity -after the first birth, she is unable to shrink to its former dimensions, so the stomach becomes evident much earlier. Abdominal muscles also are not as strong and bulging tum much lower. But uterus no pressure on the stomach and digestive problems,heartburn and other amenities should not be. Urging to urinate frequently as they were, and remain, I have not noticed much of a difference, but during the second pregnancy they should have been more - just not the uterus presses on the stomach, so she sat down on the lower back and the bladder. But with the back I namuchalas enough - neither sit nor stand could not, so much aching lower back. And for the first time no hint of such there was no pain. By the way, in these cases it helps a bandage and special exercises.
As I said, relaxed memorieson the first pregnancy a pleasant and easy childbirth, I'm not too upset because of the aching back, legs, huge belly and waiting for the appearance of his son since the 36th week. My daughter was born at the 39th week, and the midwife assured me that the second child is usually born a little earlier than the first. But it was not there! We had to walk 42 weeks. Contrary to expectations, the initial battle lasted more than a day, I could not find a place for himself, he wandered around the apartment, could neither sleep nor eat. Considered the fight and upset - the hospital early. When I finally got into rodzal then I felt all the charm of the second birth, which had to pass quickly and easily. Far from it! For the female body a large gap in time after the first pregnancy is not very well tolerated. In this case, everything happens as the first time. Doctors vying Not for nothing are advised not to delay a second child, a maximum of 3-5 years, this is the ideal age difference for kids, and for the mother's health.
Comparing both pregnancies, I can say thatI was ready psychologically and consciously expecting a child only the second time. Even in the 20 years old girl is not ready to be a mother, though she had excellent health. How would an adult she looked and did not want the child, her soul is still immature.
Pregnancy and Work
Employment during pregnancy - a special theme andcomplex. Of course, all the work was - and scandals with tears, and malicious envy of colleagues, and friendly support from the people that previously only greeted. Constant stuffiness, drafts, smoking colleagues, nervous chef and the computer did not add optimism health and future mom, but no options. He told himself not to be nervous because of an error in the report, or untimely calls occasionally drank a sedative, appeared on the balcony to get some air. All this is inevitable, and the approach to this issue should be philosophically. But a lot of other advantages - every morning and evening, I ignored the minibus and was halfway home walking through the park. There was a reason to buy different outfits - well, as in the office you need to look decent in any position. Fortunately now a huge number of beautiful gizmos for pregnant women, and 14 years ago I had to go through all 9 months in several dresses, tailored dressmaker.
The attitude to their own health and the health ofkid in a grown woman clearly more thoughtful and serious. Own experience is an example: seeking out the most fresh and healthy products, the study annotations to any vitamin complexes and collection of medicinal herbs, I even aromatherapyIt took until the allergy to essential oils. The only bad habit from which could not refuse - a cup of organic coffee. But this is due to the specifics of the work and low pressure. But I did not allow myself to sweet and starchy foods, as well as we ... With the first child was scored 11 kg, with a second 13 kg. The difference, as you can see, small. I think it depends on the physique and appetite. And the weight of the child: a daughter 2700 g, and the son - 3300
Sport do not particularly like, but ageIt originates, and after 30, have to keep myself in shape. Walking on special courses was not possible, but I like a decent pregnant, bought magazines and performed exercises at home. Muscles must be kept in good shape and hoditsya easier and feel better. Madly I want to practice yoga for pregnant women, but in the home is available only the most simple asanas, more intricate without sensitive management terrible to do, who knows what.
Since I'm not a big fan of disco and nightClub, the scarcity of available entertainment is not particularly upset. In the first trimester of the exit of the sea family, and returned to the city, has become a pleasure to walk in the evenings, to read a lot, listen to instrumental music and visiting new restaurants.
The second pregnancy made me become a motheragain, a review of all their habits and life principles. Everything has changed - the methods of upbringing and attitude. Again, I felt like a young girl, but with luggage invaluable experience and knowledge. this path was difficult and rocky, but it was worth it.