The question is delicate, but, nevertheless, important: whether sex is allowed during menstruation? Someone will answer negatively, someone positively. And in some cultures until today, a woman is considered inviolable at this time and even unclean. In our country, glances are wider and it all depends on the desires of partners and their preferences. But no matter how it was, a similar question gets up in front of any couple every month and unequivocally answer it is not so easy.
And in order to make some weighted conclusions, you need to deal with this more detailed. So, it is worth considering sex from the point of view of biology and those processes that occur at this time.
Sex features during menstruation
As you know, at this time, a woman has a slight opening of the cervix and the fade-rugged cells of the endometrium are distinguished from it. It can feel minor thankful pain in the abdomen, general malaise and headache. However, these symptoms are not observed at all and depend on the individual characteristics.
In the process of sexual intercourse during menstruation, microtraums may occur in the uterine cavity, which can lead to the formation of inflammation of female genital organs, if the partner has infections. Also, as a result of the reinforced blood flow to the genital organs, a woman has an increase in libido, which causes an incredible desire. Although this fact some will be able to challenge, as 7% of women with PMS suffer from strong pains and in general most of the time are in bed. Naturally, such thoughts do not attend them.
If the couple decided to have sex in spite of anything, then you need to take care of some things pre-:
- It is advisable to choose some one place. If this is a bed, then it needs to be closed with something, but the best option will be a bath, according to all reasons.
- Mandatory condition for such sex is the observance of intimate hygiene by both partners. As mentioned above, at this time the risk of inflammatory diseases increases. Therefore, you need to take shower before and after sexual intercourse.
- In the first two or three days, when allocations are the most abundant, you need to refuse sex.
- Everything should be gentle and without sharp movements, otherwise the gain of bleeding is provided.
- It will not be superfluous to use a condom that will protect from the same infections.
- And, of course, it is better that the events take place in the dark, and the pleasure can change the aesthetic disgust.
These are details you need to know about sexual relations in «Women's days». In addition, you can still highlight their pros and cons, which are also desirable to take note.
pros
Let's start with pleasant to immediately not scare away doubting.
Firstly, the woman has elevated libido, which promises not just sex, and very good sex, because to reach orgasm in «those days» It is possible much faster.
Secondly, it observes the narrowing of the vagina and increase its sensitivity (due to the enhanced blood flow to the sexual organs), which gives sharp sensations to both partners.
Third, gentle sex can bring relief and partial reduction in pain. And sometimes even reduce the time of menstruation itself, which is explained by stronger cuts in the uterus during the entire act and orgasm that allow you to quickly push the fluid from it, reduce swelling and even reduce pain.
Fourthly, this sex is more considered for forbidden, and therefore more desirable. As you know, we all want what you can not.
Minuses
Here they can say somewhat more, although this does not prove the fact that sex during monthly undesirable.
- The first thing I would like to warn all women, and the men's half of the readers our site too: menstruation do not guarantee 100% protection against pregnancy. Yes, such an opportunity, of course, decreases, but not denied. On the fact of fertilization affects the process of ovulation, and it can get on these days. In addition, spermatozoa lives and actively manifest themselves for 5-7 days, after entering the uterus. Therefore, the statement that during the PMS cannot be pregnant, not true.
- Once again a reminder of infection. If a woman suffers Thrush or any other disease, «night life» For a couple of days it becomes forbidden. Also, the occurrence of endometriosis is not excluded, since the distinguished endometrial cells can get into the microtraums formed during sex. As a result of the disease, sometimes cycle disorders occur, severe pain, rarely - infertility. Thus, any infection that has any of the partners may dramatically progress and lead to the formation of a disease.
If the sexual partner is the same, say, the husband, then there is nothing to be afraid. But with random connections from this you need to refuse, because there is no guarantee about the health of an unfamiliar man or a woman.
The opinion of gynecologists
It is always interesting that a doctor thinks about the occasion, so to speak, from a professional point of view. Modern doctors do not say that sex during menstruation is not allowed or will have negative consequences. No contraindications. The main thing is how the woman feels and how much she can handle with it. Except for dismensory cases, when such actions bring pain, and therefore, with such a disease, sex does not recommend.
According to the gynecologists, the menstrual blood is chista herself and almost does not bear any bacteria. One single disadvantage is its characteristic smell that can push a man.
In conclusion, it is worth noting that knowing all the above facts can already soberly judge whether it is possible or not. And everyone makes a decision. Perhaps someone will negatively perceive this topic, but there are both those who do not like to deprive themselves. Therefore, it is better to be informed and consciously informed.